Annoyed with our delayed flight to Paris, I pulled out my Enzymology notes to grab a few extra minutes of studying while waiting on the plane. Glancing over old PowerPoint presentations, I overheard the passenger sitting next to me ramble fluent French into her cell phone. When she had finished her conversation, I turned to her and asked, "Excuse me, but are you French?"
"Yes," she replied in flawless English and hint of a smile upon recognizing my American accent.
"I couldn't help but notice that you were speaking French a moment ago," I sheepishly replied. "Have you heard anything about the transportation strike in Paris?"
"I just got off the phone with my Dad," she replied. "He said that the city is a mess right now, and the taxis are taking full advantage of an unfair situation. If you aren't careful, they'll cheat you out of money very easily."
Nodding with understanding, I quickly introduced myself and Craig to our newfound acquaintance. Though we spent a lot of time talking to this young lady, neither Craig nor I can currently remember her name. I remember her as "Sophie" while Craig swears her name was "Camille" -- so for the sake of compromise, I will call her "Soca".
As our conversation progressed, we learned that Soca was a student majoring in political science. She had spent the past weekend visiting friends in London before heading back to Paris for a busy week of school and work.
"What do American's think of our new president, Nicolas Sarkozy?" Soca asked.
Believe it or not, this was actually a trick question. Americans have the notorious reputation of being completely ignorant of politics and culture outside of their own country. (In fact, many don't even realize that the major currency of Europe is the "Euro".) So by stating that I had no idea that France even elected a new president, I would once again confirm that Americans are stupid when it comes to global affairs.
Thankfully, Craig came to my rescue and replied, "We appreciate that President Sarkozy is making an effort to build ties with the United States."
Craig has always been well-informed of global events, and this was yet another time that he has saved me from making an ignorant faux pas. Smiling at his well-spoken opinion, Soca stated, "Sarkozy gets a lot of criticism for his policies, but I think that he has done a lot for our foreign relationships."
As Craig and Soca continued to discuss world politics, I folded up my tray table as I felt the plane lurch forward towards the runway. "Ladies and gentlemen," the pilot announced over the intercom. "We have now been cleared for take-off and will be departing shortly for Paris Charles De Gaulle. Thank you for your patience."
Almost on cue, the cabin lights switched off, and the plane began its rapid acceleration down the runway. As the plane climbed higher into the night sky, I laid my head on Craig's shoulder and instantly fell asleep.
However, my in-flight nap was short-lived as I was unexpectedly jolted awake as the plane crashed back to earth. With a startled gasp, I asked, "What happened?!"
"We landed," Craig replied dryly.
Pulling me close as my heart raced against my chest, Craig whispered, "We're finally in Paris."
With heavy winds and biting sheets of sleet falling from the sky, the plane's descent into Paris was a bit rocky from the high levels of turbulence. Ironically, I slept through the entire storm until our plane was forced to make a sharp landing and bounced dangerously on the landing strip. Climbing out of our seats as the pilot apologized for his rough landing, Craig and I ducked into the biting sleet storm and ran to the airport arrival gate. Once inside, we began to brush off our carry-on bags and looked around for the French passport control stations.
Spotting Soca nearby, Craig motioned to her and suggested an offer that would help all three of us to survive the Parisian transportation strike. "Would you like to split a cab with Julia and I?" he asked. "If you could negotiate a reasonable price with a taxi driver, then we could all get to the city at only a third of the price of hiring a cab alone."
Seeing the logic in splitting the taxi fare from the airport, Soca readily agreed to wait for us past the passport control gates so that we could travel together. Thrilled with our luck of finding a native French translator to deal with the taxi driver, I thanked my lucky stars that I was dating a resourceful guy that knows how to make friends in a difficult situation.
Passing through French customs without any mishaps, Craig and I found Soca speaking rapid French to an attendant at the airport information kiosk. Translating her conversation to us soon afterwards, Soca mentioned that the wait for a taxi would be roughly 30 minutes and that our only option would be to wait in line near the airport exit.
Rolling Craig's suitcase to the "taxi line", the three of us chatted while waiting for the next cab to become available. Luckily, we only waited about 15 minutes before making it to the front of the line and crawling into an idling taxi. Handing over addresses and haggling prices in French, Soca was eventually satisfied with the taxi service, and the cab driver pulled away from the airport.
The drive into Paris took about a half hour, but I was amused by watching French traffic weave across lanes at a speedy pace with no obvious order or logic. It wasn't easy to see the city from the taxi windows, but Craig and Soca were too engaged in another conversation on world politics to notice that we were quickly approaching Paris. As the cab driver maneuvered through the Parisian city streets, I spotted the Moulin Rouge only minutes before the taxi stopped in front of our hotel.
Clutching our coats, Craig and I thanked Soca many times before leaving the taxi. Wanting to express our gratitude, we handed her enough money to cover the cost of the taxi ride to our hotel as well as the rest of her trip home. Not wanting to accept the extra money at first, we insisted until she could only smile and thank us for our gift.
As the taxi pulled away, Craig mentioned to me, "I've always heard that the French are rather hostile to travelers, but I think that girl has just proven them wrong. The French are clearly some of the friendliest people I've ever met."
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
A Parisian Catastrophe
Separated by merely the English Channel, there are three main ways that you can travel from London to Paris: plane, train, or ferry. By far, the most popular route is via a train route that travels underwater through a tunnel dug below the channel. My friend Bill decided to visit Paris with a group from the University of Surrey, and to save money, they crossed the channel via ferry. Asking Bill about the trip later, he admitted that the ferry ride was a bit long, but the price made the trip more affordable. Craig and I decided to bypass boats and trains to fly directly into Paris Charles De Gaulle airport from London Luton. I'll leave you to judge whether this was a smart decision or not, but my original reasoning for choosing flight went something like this:
Since we were already in London, Craig and I needed a transportation method that was close and affordable so as to not waste precious time in route. Location alone limited us to either flying or riding on a train to Paris. At first, I thought it would be best to take a train (a.k.a. "Eurostar") round trip from London to Paris and back. Compared to discount flights, train tickets were only slightly more expensive but it is a lot easier to travel via rail rather than plane. This plan would have worked fine except for the fact that Craig and I decided to add a few extra cities into our Western European tour. Wanting to take full advantage of our time in Europe, we thought that four days in London and four days in Paris would be too much time in only two locations. Rescheduling our travel plans, we decided that three days in London, three in Paris, and two days in Belgium would be the perfect balance for our short vacation. Our only restriction was that we had to start and end in London since this is where Craig would be arriving and leaving Europe. Logically, it would make sense to simply travel in a triangle: London, Paris, Belgium, and then back to London. This would allow us to skip all the airports and travel by train to all of our destinations. Unfortunately, Eurostar doesn't favor one-way tickets.
For my "triangle travel plan" to work, we would need three one-way tickets to Paris, Brussels, and London. In my American state of mind, I had assumed that one-way tickets would be roughly half the price of round trip tickets -- not quite. A round-trip ticket between London and Paris was approximately $150. A one-way ticket from London to Paris was $250. Why buy a one-way ticket when a round-trip is clearly cheaper? Though I still don't completely understand their rationale for over-pricing one-way tickets, I think it may have something to do with ensuring that travelers return to their country of origin.
Comparing train fares with plane tickets, I found that a flight from London Luton to Paris was only $100. Though airports are a bit more stressful than train stations, the overall travel and check-in time would be similar to riding the Eurostar to Paris. Assuming our flight would be running on time, I booked two tickets from London Luton to Paris Charles De Gaulle with the new plan of flying from London to Paris, taking the Eurostar from Paris to Belgium and back to Paris, and then flying back to London from Paris. Of course, things never quite work out exactly as planned...
After a very long train ride to London Luton Airport, Craig and I arrived just as the check-in desk was opening for our flight. Checking Craig's suitcase and handing over our passports, we quickly proceeded to a speedy security checkpoint and soon found ourselves near the airport terminals. Always having a lot of luck getting through Luton airport, I was once again pleased by the uncharacteristically quick airport service. With an hour and a half to spare before boarding, Craig and I found seats at an airport cafe and ordered two heaping plates of pasta to hold us over until reaching Paris later in the evening.
While twirling linguine with a fork, I felt my cell phone buzz with a new text message. Pulling the phone out of my pocket, I quickly read a message from Bill that quickly diminished my appetite. "What's wrong?" Craig asked, watching an expression of panic wash across my face.
"We might be in a bit of trouble when we get to Paris tonight," I moaned.
Handing him my cell phone, Craig skimmed Bill's message that went something like this:
"NO SUBWAY IN PARIS. CITY TRANSPORTATION STRIKE -- NO BUSES, TRAINS, OR METRO RUNNING. TAXIS ARE OVERPRICED. WILL LAST FOR REST OF WEEK."
"Looks like we'll be walking a lot," Craig said, handing back my phone.
"Or paying for an expensive taxi ride," I groaned. "The taxis are probably jumping their prices to take advantage of the situation. We would probably be able to haggle them down if we could speak French."
The good news in our situation was that Craig and I were able to learn of the Paris transportation strike before arriving in France. Earlier that weekend, Bill left Guildford to travel to Paris with a school group bound for Europe's Disneyland. Lucky for him, Bill's transportation around the city was covered by private bus, which meant that the transportation strike bothered him very little. Knowing that Craig and I would be depending solely on public transportation while in Paris, Bill gave us a little "heads up" with what to expect when arriving in the city. Without his thoughtful text message, Craig and I would have been much worse walking into the situation blind -- and not able to speak the native language.
Mulling over our options, I knew that the most important thing to cover first would be hailing an overpriced taxi to drive us from the airport to our hostel for the night. Everything else would have to wait until morning. However, I feared that the strike might severely limit our sightseeing for the week and prayed that we'd at least be able to make it to Belgium via train.
Trying to push our impending quandary from my mind, Craig and I finished dinner and then searched for a few seats in the waiting area with a clear view of the flight boarding schedule. Noticing that our flight was running a little behind, we relaxed for a few extra minutes before heading to Departure Gate 10. Since discount flights typically don't have reserved seating, Craig and I practically ran to the departure gate in hopes of catching a spot near the front of the line so that we'd be one of the first to board. Happy that we arrived just as the line was forming, our celebration was short-lived as a voice announced over the Intercom that our departure gate had just been changed to Gate 2.
Simultaneously, 60 annoyed passengers turned on their heels and began rushing to the opposite side of the airport. Grabbing my hand, Craig began speed walking towards the new gate at a pace that was hard to match with even my very long legs. Priding himself on his speed walking abilities, Craig and I were the first to arrive at Gate 2 and thus began a line behind the departure desk. Thrilled that we would still be first to board, our exhilaration was once again short-lived as the flight attendant informed us that we were standing in the "Premier Package" line and therefore needed to go to the back of the "Discount Boarding" line. Shrugging, Craig leaned over to me and said, "There are days when you just can't win..."
Luckily, Craig and I were still able to find two seats sitting next to each other even after being last to board the plane. Squeezing into cramped quarters, we buckled our seat belts and shifted our legs to fully take advantage of our limited personal space. Expecting to idle towards the runway any minute, we were surprised to hear the pilot's voice announce over the plane's speaker system, "Sorry for the delay ladies and gentlemen, but turbulent weather in Paris is forcing us to wait a little longer for clearance before taking off. We will give further updates shortly."
Rolling my eyes at our streak of bad luck, I mumbled, "Looks like it'll be a late-night arrival in Paris."
Since we were already in London, Craig and I needed a transportation method that was close and affordable so as to not waste precious time in route. Location alone limited us to either flying or riding on a train to Paris. At first, I thought it would be best to take a train (a.k.a. "Eurostar") round trip from London to Paris and back. Compared to discount flights, train tickets were only slightly more expensive but it is a lot easier to travel via rail rather than plane. This plan would have worked fine except for the fact that Craig and I decided to add a few extra cities into our Western European tour. Wanting to take full advantage of our time in Europe, we thought that four days in London and four days in Paris would be too much time in only two locations. Rescheduling our travel plans, we decided that three days in London, three in Paris, and two days in Belgium would be the perfect balance for our short vacation. Our only restriction was that we had to start and end in London since this is where Craig would be arriving and leaving Europe. Logically, it would make sense to simply travel in a triangle: London, Paris, Belgium, and then back to London. This would allow us to skip all the airports and travel by train to all of our destinations. Unfortunately, Eurostar doesn't favor one-way tickets.
For my "triangle travel plan" to work, we would need three one-way tickets to Paris, Brussels, and London. In my American state of mind, I had assumed that one-way tickets would be roughly half the price of round trip tickets -- not quite. A round-trip ticket between London and Paris was approximately $150. A one-way ticket from London to Paris was $250. Why buy a one-way ticket when a round-trip is clearly cheaper? Though I still don't completely understand their rationale for over-pricing one-way tickets, I think it may have something to do with ensuring that travelers return to their country of origin.
Comparing train fares with plane tickets, I found that a flight from London Luton to Paris was only $100. Though airports are a bit more stressful than train stations, the overall travel and check-in time would be similar to riding the Eurostar to Paris. Assuming our flight would be running on time, I booked two tickets from London Luton to Paris Charles De Gaulle with the new plan of flying from London to Paris, taking the Eurostar from Paris to Belgium and back to Paris, and then flying back to London from Paris. Of course, things never quite work out exactly as planned...
After a very long train ride to London Luton Airport, Craig and I arrived just as the check-in desk was opening for our flight. Checking Craig's suitcase and handing over our passports, we quickly proceeded to a speedy security checkpoint and soon found ourselves near the airport terminals. Always having a lot of luck getting through Luton airport, I was once again pleased by the uncharacteristically quick airport service. With an hour and a half to spare before boarding, Craig and I found seats at an airport cafe and ordered two heaping plates of pasta to hold us over until reaching Paris later in the evening.
While twirling linguine with a fork, I felt my cell phone buzz with a new text message. Pulling the phone out of my pocket, I quickly read a message from Bill that quickly diminished my appetite. "What's wrong?" Craig asked, watching an expression of panic wash across my face.
"We might be in a bit of trouble when we get to Paris tonight," I moaned.
Handing him my cell phone, Craig skimmed Bill's message that went something like this:
"NO SUBWAY IN PARIS. CITY TRANSPORTATION STRIKE -- NO BUSES, TRAINS, OR METRO RUNNING. TAXIS ARE OVERPRICED. WILL LAST FOR REST OF WEEK."
"Looks like we'll be walking a lot," Craig said, handing back my phone.
"Or paying for an expensive taxi ride," I groaned. "The taxis are probably jumping their prices to take advantage of the situation. We would probably be able to haggle them down if we could speak French."
The good news in our situation was that Craig and I were able to learn of the Paris transportation strike before arriving in France. Earlier that weekend, Bill left Guildford to travel to Paris with a school group bound for Europe's Disneyland. Lucky for him, Bill's transportation around the city was covered by private bus, which meant that the transportation strike bothered him very little. Knowing that Craig and I would be depending solely on public transportation while in Paris, Bill gave us a little "heads up" with what to expect when arriving in the city. Without his thoughtful text message, Craig and I would have been much worse walking into the situation blind -- and not able to speak the native language.
Mulling over our options, I knew that the most important thing to cover first would be hailing an overpriced taxi to drive us from the airport to our hostel for the night. Everything else would have to wait until morning. However, I feared that the strike might severely limit our sightseeing for the week and prayed that we'd at least be able to make it to Belgium via train.
Trying to push our impending quandary from my mind, Craig and I finished dinner and then searched for a few seats in the waiting area with a clear view of the flight boarding schedule. Noticing that our flight was running a little behind, we relaxed for a few extra minutes before heading to Departure Gate 10. Since discount flights typically don't have reserved seating, Craig and I practically ran to the departure gate in hopes of catching a spot near the front of the line so that we'd be one of the first to board. Happy that we arrived just as the line was forming, our celebration was short-lived as a voice announced over the Intercom that our departure gate had just been changed to Gate 2.
Simultaneously, 60 annoyed passengers turned on their heels and began rushing to the opposite side of the airport. Grabbing my hand, Craig began speed walking towards the new gate at a pace that was hard to match with even my very long legs. Priding himself on his speed walking abilities, Craig and I were the first to arrive at Gate 2 and thus began a line behind the departure desk. Thrilled that we would still be first to board, our exhilaration was once again short-lived as the flight attendant informed us that we were standing in the "Premier Package" line and therefore needed to go to the back of the "Discount Boarding" line. Shrugging, Craig leaned over to me and said, "There are days when you just can't win..."
Luckily, Craig and I were still able to find two seats sitting next to each other even after being last to board the plane. Squeezing into cramped quarters, we buckled our seat belts and shifted our legs to fully take advantage of our limited personal space. Expecting to idle towards the runway any minute, we were surprised to hear the pilot's voice announce over the plane's speaker system, "Sorry for the delay ladies and gentlemen, but turbulent weather in Paris is forcing us to wait a little longer for clearance before taking off. We will give further updates shortly."
Rolling my eyes at our streak of bad luck, I mumbled, "Looks like it'll be a late-night arrival in Paris."
Friday, July 18, 2008
London Mornings and Paris Nights
Hungry after our visit to the Churchill Museum, I racked my brain for restaurants in London that I remembered having decent food and reasonable prices. "Are you hungry for anything in particular?" I asked Craig as we hopped back on the subway for a quick trip to the British Museum.
"Since I'm in Britain," he began, "I'd really like to try fish and chips while I'm here."
"No problem. There's actually a pretty decent place right across from the museum. Let's grab a bite to eat first and then catch an hour or two at the British Museum before heading back to the hostel to pick up our luggage."
Before that day, I had eaten at this restaurant only once after Bill and I had toured the British Museum. It was our first real experience with British food, and from what I could remember, it didn't seem too bad at the time. In the few months between visits to this restaurant, however, I had visited several British cities and had tasted some incredible dishes during our travels. In short, I had become an amateur food critic and was a bit pickier about sub-par foods.
One of my goals for this trip was to find the best British food for Craig to try while he was in England. Since the British don't have a very nice reputation for their food anyways, my best two options were "bangers & mash" and "fish & chips". Having satisfied the bangers & mash requirement during Craig's first meal in London, I thought that it would be easy to find decent fish & chips near the British Museum -- wrong.
As the waitress brought our platters, I noticed that fish didn't look as crispy and fluffy as I had experienced in other parts of England. Admittedly, it looked more like breaded fish rather than the typical beer-battered fish that marks the dish as distinctly British. Overall, the food was alright -- mediocre but clearly edible. Disappointed, Craig wiped his hands on a napkin and said, "No offense, dear, but I've found better fish & chips back in the States."
Some of you reading this may feel that Craig and I were being a bit harsh with our food criticism and the last few paragraphs were mostly a waste of space, but I promise that there is something to learn from this seemingly unimportant story. Many restaurants in highly-toured cities cater to tourists, and tourists are usually willing to pay high prices for low-quality food simply because the restaurant is located near a main tourist attraction. Local residents, however, know not to waste their money on mediocre restaurants when they can walk a few extra blocks and have a great meal at a much more reasonable price. So my best restaurant advice for anyone touring a European city is to avoid restaurants near main tourists sights -- you will have a better food experience by finding a place further away.
Leaving a tip for the waitress, Craig and I walked over to the British Museum for a few quick hours of free London entertainment. For those who haven't read my earlier posts, the British Museum is the world's largest collection of civilization. Organized by continent, each wing of the museum is arranged chronologically from the ancient Egyptians to more modern inventions of the 19th century. Undoubtedly, the museum's most prized piece is a hefty chunk of the Rosetta Stone, which was the first artifact translating Egyptian hieroglyphics into Demotic and Greek languages. In a sense, it was the ancient world's first translator and an essential key to understanding tomb carvings in Egypt.
Telling Craig what I could remember from my first tour of the British Museum, we strolled through rooms of Egyptian mummies, Greek Parthenon statues, and other various artifacts from the Ancient World. Getting a little burnt out on museum sightseeing, Craig and I walked through the exhibits much faster than my first visit to the British Museum. Though I'd be content to examine the intricacies of the Parthenon statues, Craig isn't as excited by art and quickly moved on to other artifacts. "Let's check out the Americas," he said as we left the European rooms.
"Seriously?" I asked. "Why would you want to look at stuff that we can find back home?"
"It would just be interesting to see, I guess."
Humoring Craig, we walked to the North and South America exhibits -- rooms that Bill and I had purposely skipped on our first visit to the museum. As expected, most of the exhibits were devoted to a large array of Indian artifacts (pipes, stones, headdresses, etc.), but two displays surprised and excited us both.
"No way!" Craig exclaimed. "Gum-gum!"
It's o.k. if you're a little lost by my boyfriend's exclamation, but you might recognize the reference if you've seen Ben Stiller in the movie "Night at the Museum". In the movie, Ben Stiller plays a nighttime security guard who is startled upon realizing that the museum's exhibits come to life every night after the museum closes. The funny part about the movie is that each exhibit has a quirky personality that constantly finds trouble. One of the movie's museum exhibits includes an Easter Island statue that protests in a booming voice until Ben Stiller finds a way to quiet the statue by feeding him bubble gum. Chewing the bum and blowing gigantic bubbles, the statue smiles in self-delight and booms, "Yum-yum. Me want gum-gum."
Though no statues came to life while we were in the British Museum, Craig did manage to find an authentic Easter Island statue in one of the South American exhibits. Pulling a pack of gum out of his pocket, Craig tried offering the statue a piece, but I suppose museum exhibits only come alive after the museum closes...
The second exciting American exhibit hit a little closer to home. Browsing through aisles and aisles of Indian artifacts, Craig abruptly stopped at a small case and astonishingly said, "That's in Ohio!"
Not believing that Ohio would have anything worth showing in the world's most prestigious collection of human civilization, I backtracked to where Craig was standing and glanced in surprise at an entire case devoted to the Hopewell Mounds found in Mound City, Ohio. As a kid, my parents would always try to find time to take our family on vacation. During some years, we would stick around Ohio and visit various museums and Native American burial grounds dotting the state. Not too long ago, our family visited Mound City and hiked around the mounds learning tidbits about Hopewell culture and burial customs. Craig actually grew up near Mound City and was shocked to see his hometown area in a European museum. Reading the museum placard about the burial mounds, I was reminded how important sights of human civilization never seem all that important when they're near home. For travelers, however, they can be quite interesting and leave a lasting impression.
Glancing at my watch, I linked my arm around Craig and said, "Well, dear, we should probably start moving out of here so that we can catch our flight to Paris tonight."
Both ready to leave, we walked out of the British Museum and began the long trek back to the hostel to pick up our luggage. Stopping on our walk to the subway at a Scottish wool shop, Craig spent a few minutes perusing through the cashmere scarves and sweaters before purchasing a few Christmas gifts and hopping back onto the subway. Nervously glancing at my watch every few minutes or so, we managed to quickly grab our bags at the hostel and travel to the nearest station to catch the next train to Luton Airport.
"Isn't it incredible?!" I exclaimed as we waited for our train to arrive. "We woke up this morning in London and will be asleep tonight in Paris!"
"Since I'm in Britain," he began, "I'd really like to try fish and chips while I'm here."
"No problem. There's actually a pretty decent place right across from the museum. Let's grab a bite to eat first and then catch an hour or two at the British Museum before heading back to the hostel to pick up our luggage."
Before that day, I had eaten at this restaurant only once after Bill and I had toured the British Museum. It was our first real experience with British food, and from what I could remember, it didn't seem too bad at the time. In the few months between visits to this restaurant, however, I had visited several British cities and had tasted some incredible dishes during our travels. In short, I had become an amateur food critic and was a bit pickier about sub-par foods.
One of my goals for this trip was to find the best British food for Craig to try while he was in England. Since the British don't have a very nice reputation for their food anyways, my best two options were "bangers & mash" and "fish & chips". Having satisfied the bangers & mash requirement during Craig's first meal in London, I thought that it would be easy to find decent fish & chips near the British Museum -- wrong.
As the waitress brought our platters, I noticed that fish didn't look as crispy and fluffy as I had experienced in other parts of England. Admittedly, it looked more like breaded fish rather than the typical beer-battered fish that marks the dish as distinctly British. Overall, the food was alright -- mediocre but clearly edible. Disappointed, Craig wiped his hands on a napkin and said, "No offense, dear, but I've found better fish & chips back in the States."
Some of you reading this may feel that Craig and I were being a bit harsh with our food criticism and the last few paragraphs were mostly a waste of space, but I promise that there is something to learn from this seemingly unimportant story. Many restaurants in highly-toured cities cater to tourists, and tourists are usually willing to pay high prices for low-quality food simply because the restaurant is located near a main tourist attraction. Local residents, however, know not to waste their money on mediocre restaurants when they can walk a few extra blocks and have a great meal at a much more reasonable price. So my best restaurant advice for anyone touring a European city is to avoid restaurants near main tourists sights -- you will have a better food experience by finding a place further away.
Leaving a tip for the waitress, Craig and I walked over to the British Museum for a few quick hours of free London entertainment. For those who haven't read my earlier posts, the British Museum is the world's largest collection of civilization. Organized by continent, each wing of the museum is arranged chronologically from the ancient Egyptians to more modern inventions of the 19th century. Undoubtedly, the museum's most prized piece is a hefty chunk of the Rosetta Stone, which was the first artifact translating Egyptian hieroglyphics into Demotic and Greek languages. In a sense, it was the ancient world's first translator and an essential key to understanding tomb carvings in Egypt.
Telling Craig what I could remember from my first tour of the British Museum, we strolled through rooms of Egyptian mummies, Greek Parthenon statues, and other various artifacts from the Ancient World. Getting a little burnt out on museum sightseeing, Craig and I walked through the exhibits much faster than my first visit to the British Museum. Though I'd be content to examine the intricacies of the Parthenon statues, Craig isn't as excited by art and quickly moved on to other artifacts. "Let's check out the Americas," he said as we left the European rooms.
"Seriously?" I asked. "Why would you want to look at stuff that we can find back home?"
"It would just be interesting to see, I guess."
Humoring Craig, we walked to the North and South America exhibits -- rooms that Bill and I had purposely skipped on our first visit to the museum. As expected, most of the exhibits were devoted to a large array of Indian artifacts (pipes, stones, headdresses, etc.), but two displays surprised and excited us both.
"No way!" Craig exclaimed. "Gum-gum!"
It's o.k. if you're a little lost by my boyfriend's exclamation, but you might recognize the reference if you've seen Ben Stiller in the movie "Night at the Museum". In the movie, Ben Stiller plays a nighttime security guard who is startled upon realizing that the museum's exhibits come to life every night after the museum closes. The funny part about the movie is that each exhibit has a quirky personality that constantly finds trouble. One of the movie's museum exhibits includes an Easter Island statue that protests in a booming voice until Ben Stiller finds a way to quiet the statue by feeding him bubble gum. Chewing the bum and blowing gigantic bubbles, the statue smiles in self-delight and booms, "Yum-yum. Me want gum-gum."
Though no statues came to life while we were in the British Museum, Craig did manage to find an authentic Easter Island statue in one of the South American exhibits. Pulling a pack of gum out of his pocket, Craig tried offering the statue a piece, but I suppose museum exhibits only come alive after the museum closes...
The second exciting American exhibit hit a little closer to home. Browsing through aisles and aisles of Indian artifacts, Craig abruptly stopped at a small case and astonishingly said, "That's in Ohio!"
Not believing that Ohio would have anything worth showing in the world's most prestigious collection of human civilization, I backtracked to where Craig was standing and glanced in surprise at an entire case devoted to the Hopewell Mounds found in Mound City, Ohio. As a kid, my parents would always try to find time to take our family on vacation. During some years, we would stick around Ohio and visit various museums and Native American burial grounds dotting the state. Not too long ago, our family visited Mound City and hiked around the mounds learning tidbits about Hopewell culture and burial customs. Craig actually grew up near Mound City and was shocked to see his hometown area in a European museum. Reading the museum placard about the burial mounds, I was reminded how important sights of human civilization never seem all that important when they're near home. For travelers, however, they can be quite interesting and leave a lasting impression.
Glancing at my watch, I linked my arm around Craig and said, "Well, dear, we should probably start moving out of here so that we can catch our flight to Paris tonight."
Both ready to leave, we walked out of the British Museum and began the long trek back to the hostel to pick up our luggage. Stopping on our walk to the subway at a Scottish wool shop, Craig spent a few minutes perusing through the cashmere scarves and sweaters before purchasing a few Christmas gifts and hopping back onto the subway. Nervously glancing at my watch every few minutes or so, we managed to quickly grab our bags at the hostel and travel to the nearest station to catch the next train to Luton Airport.
"Isn't it incredible?!" I exclaimed as we waited for our train to arrive. "We woke up this morning in London and will be asleep tonight in Paris!"
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
"We are all worms..."
Sleeping like logs during the night, my alarm awoke Craig and I much too early the next morning. Accustomed to the waste-no-minute mentality of traveling, I hopped out of my bed the moment my alarm started beeping. Leaving Craig to snooze for an extra half hour, I enjoyed a hot shower and dressed for the busy day ahead. Snoring like a baby, Craig eventually stirred as I rummaged through my bag looking for a pair of clean socks.
"Good morning, sleepyhead," I cooed. "You need to get up so that we don't miss mass at Westminster Cathedral."
Sleepily rolling out of his bed, Craig dragged his feet to the shower and was ready in half the time it took me to wash up. Repacking our bags, we dragged our suitcases back down to the storage closet in the hostel basement before eating a meager breakfast in the ridiculously crowded dining room. "Better get milk for your cereal," Craig warned. "They're almost out, and there's a hungry crowd walking down the hall."
Sprinkling the last drops of milk over my cornflakes, I joined Craig at a long table to talk about our sight-seeing plans for the day.
"First things first," I began, "we'll need to keep track of time today so that we don't miss our 8 o'clock flight to Paris. The departure gates open at 6, and we'll want to be there right on time in case there's a long line. Bill and I have had too many close calls with flight plans for me to take any chances while you're here."
"Righto," Craig agreed.
"We'll need to check out of our hostel room before leaving this morning since we won't be back until later this afternoon to pick up our bags. Since we have an hour or so to kill before mass, I think we should catch the Tube into central London to see the lions in Trafalgar Square -- there are some great photo ops there. From there, we should be close enough to walk to Westminster Cathedral for mass. After mass, we can spend a few hours at the Churchill Museum, which will be a first for both of us. If there's time afterwards, you really need to see the British Museum since it's free and positively amazing. By then, we'll probably need to head back here to grab our luggage before catching a train to Luton Airport. If all goes well, we should be in Paris shortly after nightfall."
"You're such a planner," Craig teased. "Sounds good to me. Ready to go?"
After checking out of the hostel, Craig and I endured the lengthy subway ride into London and hopped off at the nearest stop to Trafalgar Square. On a nice day, Trafalgar Square is always packed with local lunch-goers and tourists, which makes it impossible to get a good photo with the lions on the square's central monument. Knowing this, I had planned for us to see Trafalgar Square early on Sunday morning while most Londoners and others would be sleeping off Saturday night's party scene. As expected, my foresight proved right and we had the square mostly to ourselves before mass.
"Welcome to Trafalgar Square," I said gesturing to the nearby area.
"Now this makes me feel like I'm in London," Craig replied.
Circumventing the central fountain, I walked Craig to London's photogenic lions. "These are the most photographed statues in all of London," I began. "You should hop on up so that I can click a few pictures."
Hamming up the spotlight, Craig carefully climbed all over the lions trying to get some funny photos without falling off the monument. Laughing as I took photo after photo, he eventually jumped down to let a few other early-morning tourists climb around the lion's mane. Though we couldn't spend much time in Trafalgar Square, we had seen enough of the now pigeon-less neighborhood and briskly walked to Westminster Cathedral in hopes of arriving before the opening song.
Contrary to popular belief, Westminster Cathedral is not affiliated with Westminster Abbey. To clear up any confusion, Westminster Abbey belongs to the Church of England and serves as the primary burial ground for British monarchs and other members of the royal family. By contrast, Westminster Cathedral is a Catholic church that was consecrated much more recently in 1910. For Craig and I, it was basically just a fancy place to go to mass on Sunday morning.
There's not much to say about Westminster Cathedral. Mass proceeded as it would anywhere else in the world, and the church itself was not very memorable. Sparsely decorated inside, Westminster Cathedral serves its most important underlying purpose -- worship. Though this might surprise some who view cathedrals as places of overwhelming pomp and circumstance, the bareness of the church did not surprise me. In Britain, Catholic churches were humbly designed so as to not upstage the Anglican churches. After centuries of quarrelsome debate, England hasn't been able to rid itself of Catholicism, but they won't let us gloat either.
Energy lagging a bit after the solemn mass, Craig and I ducked into a cozy coffee shop for much-needed cups of caffeine. Settling into a chair with a cup of Chai, I immediately pulled out my map of London and began circling the day's remaining destinations. Checking my Rick Steve's U.K. travel guide for museum hours, I said, "Looks like we can relax for a little while until the Churchill Museum opens. Are you up for a walk?"
"Sure," Craig replied while finishing his coffee.
Walking back to Trafalgar Square, we looped around London catching glimpses of Buckingham Palace, Westminster Abbey, and Parliament. Strolling through St. James's Park, I became a little befuddled with my sense of direction and stopped to ask a London police officer to point us in the direction of the Churchill Museum.
"I believe the Churchill Museum is closed today, but I cannot be sure on the matter," the policeman kindly replied.
Worried that my plans had been unknowingly foiled, we followed the officer's directions and eventually found the entrance to the Churchill Museum and Cabinet War Rooms. Thankfully, the officer was wrong and the museum was open for its normal Sunday hours. Breathing sighs of relief, Craig and I paid the admission fee and began our self-guided audio tour of the underground Cabinet War Rooms.
During World War II, the Nazis embarked on an all-out siege of Britain's capital city. Enduring bomb after bomb from the sky, Londoners were forced to either flee the city or seek shelter in underground bomb shelters. Unwilling to abandon the city of London, Prime Minister Winston Churchill stood firm as he continued to lead from his offices in England's capital. But how did he survive the attacks from the air? And how did he manage to speak securely with world leaders while Nazi soldiers were well within range of intercepting communication signals? Why were Nazi troops never able to conquer London?
Some of these answers can be found in the underground Cabinet War Rooms. Originally covering three acres, the Cabinet War Rooms were part of an underground bunker built beneath some of London's prominent landmarks. Protected by a steel-enforced roof, the bunker served as a safe haven for the Prime Minister, his family, and over 500 government employees seeking to discover new strategies for ending the war. Listening to our audio guides, Craig and I were able to experience a typical day under Nazi attack while hearing sound bits of Churchill himself. Walking down empty corridors with dimly-lit corners, we saw Churchill's living quarters, workplaces of military strategists, and bedrooms of the Prime Minister's detectives. My favorite part of the war rooms, however, was the quirky sense of humor that Winston Churchill still managed to work into his underground bunker in a dangerous time of war. For example, the Prime Minister had a private phone line connected only to President Franklin D. Roosevelt for important conversations on sensitive war matters. With hundreds of employees floating around very tight quarters, how was Churchill able to talk to Roosevelt privately without being overheard? By installing the phone in a very private place -- his bathroom! This makes me wonder if passing-by employees were ever unnerved by Churchill's rather lengthy trips to the toilet...
Eventually reaching the end of our Cabinet War Room tour, Craig and I were greeted by one of my favorite quotes while entering the remaining Churchill Museum exhibits:
"We are all worms. But I believe that I am a glow-worm."
Not much of a WWII history buff, I had never realized before how incredibly witty Winston Churchill was as Britain's Prime Minister. Not wanting to waste such well-placed humor, the Churchill Museum was covered with various Churchill witticisms that actually united a nation during a very difficult time of war. Here's a taste of some of Churchill's best quotes:
"I may be drunk, Miss, but in the morning I will be sober and you will still be ugly."
"If you go on with this nuclear arms race, all you are going to do is make the rubble bounce."
"My most brilliant achievement was my ability to be able to persuade my wife to marry me."
"Eating words has never given me indigestion."
Laughing over Winston's quirky remarks, Craig and I eventually bade farewell to the Churchill Museum as the former Prime Minister reminded us, "I am prepared to meet my Maker. Whether my Maker is prepared for the great ordeal of meeting me is another matter."
"Good morning, sleepyhead," I cooed. "You need to get up so that we don't miss mass at Westminster Cathedral."
Sleepily rolling out of his bed, Craig dragged his feet to the shower and was ready in half the time it took me to wash up. Repacking our bags, we dragged our suitcases back down to the storage closet in the hostel basement before eating a meager breakfast in the ridiculously crowded dining room. "Better get milk for your cereal," Craig warned. "They're almost out, and there's a hungry crowd walking down the hall."
Sprinkling the last drops of milk over my cornflakes, I joined Craig at a long table to talk about our sight-seeing plans for the day.
"First things first," I began, "we'll need to keep track of time today so that we don't miss our 8 o'clock flight to Paris. The departure gates open at 6, and we'll want to be there right on time in case there's a long line. Bill and I have had too many close calls with flight plans for me to take any chances while you're here."
"Righto," Craig agreed.
"We'll need to check out of our hostel room before leaving this morning since we won't be back until later this afternoon to pick up our bags. Since we have an hour or so to kill before mass, I think we should catch the Tube into central London to see the lions in Trafalgar Square -- there are some great photo ops there. From there, we should be close enough to walk to Westminster Cathedral for mass. After mass, we can spend a few hours at the Churchill Museum, which will be a first for both of us. If there's time afterwards, you really need to see the British Museum since it's free and positively amazing. By then, we'll probably need to head back here to grab our luggage before catching a train to Luton Airport. If all goes well, we should be in Paris shortly after nightfall."
"You're such a planner," Craig teased. "Sounds good to me. Ready to go?"
After checking out of the hostel, Craig and I endured the lengthy subway ride into London and hopped off at the nearest stop to Trafalgar Square. On a nice day, Trafalgar Square is always packed with local lunch-goers and tourists, which makes it impossible to get a good photo with the lions on the square's central monument. Knowing this, I had planned for us to see Trafalgar Square early on Sunday morning while most Londoners and others would be sleeping off Saturday night's party scene. As expected, my foresight proved right and we had the square mostly to ourselves before mass.
"Welcome to Trafalgar Square," I said gesturing to the nearby area.
"Now this makes me feel like I'm in London," Craig replied.
Circumventing the central fountain, I walked Craig to London's photogenic lions. "These are the most photographed statues in all of London," I began. "You should hop on up so that I can click a few pictures."
Hamming up the spotlight, Craig carefully climbed all over the lions trying to get some funny photos without falling off the monument. Laughing as I took photo after photo, he eventually jumped down to let a few other early-morning tourists climb around the lion's mane. Though we couldn't spend much time in Trafalgar Square, we had seen enough of the now pigeon-less neighborhood and briskly walked to Westminster Cathedral in hopes of arriving before the opening song.
Contrary to popular belief, Westminster Cathedral is not affiliated with Westminster Abbey. To clear up any confusion, Westminster Abbey belongs to the Church of England and serves as the primary burial ground for British monarchs and other members of the royal family. By contrast, Westminster Cathedral is a Catholic church that was consecrated much more recently in 1910. For Craig and I, it was basically just a fancy place to go to mass on Sunday morning.
There's not much to say about Westminster Cathedral. Mass proceeded as it would anywhere else in the world, and the church itself was not very memorable. Sparsely decorated inside, Westminster Cathedral serves its most important underlying purpose -- worship. Though this might surprise some who view cathedrals as places of overwhelming pomp and circumstance, the bareness of the church did not surprise me. In Britain, Catholic churches were humbly designed so as to not upstage the Anglican churches. After centuries of quarrelsome debate, England hasn't been able to rid itself of Catholicism, but they won't let us gloat either.
Energy lagging a bit after the solemn mass, Craig and I ducked into a cozy coffee shop for much-needed cups of caffeine. Settling into a chair with a cup of Chai, I immediately pulled out my map of London and began circling the day's remaining destinations. Checking my Rick Steve's U.K. travel guide for museum hours, I said, "Looks like we can relax for a little while until the Churchill Museum opens. Are you up for a walk?"
"Sure," Craig replied while finishing his coffee.
Walking back to Trafalgar Square, we looped around London catching glimpses of Buckingham Palace, Westminster Abbey, and Parliament. Strolling through St. James's Park, I became a little befuddled with my sense of direction and stopped to ask a London police officer to point us in the direction of the Churchill Museum.
"I believe the Churchill Museum is closed today, but I cannot be sure on the matter," the policeman kindly replied.
Worried that my plans had been unknowingly foiled, we followed the officer's directions and eventually found the entrance to the Churchill Museum and Cabinet War Rooms. Thankfully, the officer was wrong and the museum was open for its normal Sunday hours. Breathing sighs of relief, Craig and I paid the admission fee and began our self-guided audio tour of the underground Cabinet War Rooms.
During World War II, the Nazis embarked on an all-out siege of Britain's capital city. Enduring bomb after bomb from the sky, Londoners were forced to either flee the city or seek shelter in underground bomb shelters. Unwilling to abandon the city of London, Prime Minister Winston Churchill stood firm as he continued to lead from his offices in England's capital. But how did he survive the attacks from the air? And how did he manage to speak securely with world leaders while Nazi soldiers were well within range of intercepting communication signals? Why were Nazi troops never able to conquer London?
Some of these answers can be found in the underground Cabinet War Rooms. Originally covering three acres, the Cabinet War Rooms were part of an underground bunker built beneath some of London's prominent landmarks. Protected by a steel-enforced roof, the bunker served as a safe haven for the Prime Minister, his family, and over 500 government employees seeking to discover new strategies for ending the war. Listening to our audio guides, Craig and I were able to experience a typical day under Nazi attack while hearing sound bits of Churchill himself. Walking down empty corridors with dimly-lit corners, we saw Churchill's living quarters, workplaces of military strategists, and bedrooms of the Prime Minister's detectives. My favorite part of the war rooms, however, was the quirky sense of humor that Winston Churchill still managed to work into his underground bunker in a dangerous time of war. For example, the Prime Minister had a private phone line connected only to President Franklin D. Roosevelt for important conversations on sensitive war matters. With hundreds of employees floating around very tight quarters, how was Churchill able to talk to Roosevelt privately without being overheard? By installing the phone in a very private place -- his bathroom! This makes me wonder if passing-by employees were ever unnerved by Churchill's rather lengthy trips to the toilet...
Eventually reaching the end of our Cabinet War Room tour, Craig and I were greeted by one of my favorite quotes while entering the remaining Churchill Museum exhibits:
"We are all worms. But I believe that I am a glow-worm."
Not much of a WWII history buff, I had never realized before how incredibly witty Winston Churchill was as Britain's Prime Minister. Not wanting to waste such well-placed humor, the Churchill Museum was covered with various Churchill witticisms that actually united a nation during a very difficult time of war. Here's a taste of some of Churchill's best quotes:
"I may be drunk, Miss, but in the morning I will be sober and you will still be ugly."
"If you go on with this nuclear arms race, all you are going to do is make the rubble bounce."
"My most brilliant achievement was my ability to be able to persuade my wife to marry me."
"Eating words has never given me indigestion."
Laughing over Winston's quirky remarks, Craig and I eventually bade farewell to the Churchill Museum as the former Prime Minister reminded us, "I am prepared to meet my Maker. Whether my Maker is prepared for the great ordeal of meeting me is another matter."
Monday, July 14, 2008
Memories I Have Already Forgotten
During our nightly phone call last night, Craig mentioned that he had finally found time to sit down and read through my most recent blog posts about his arrival in London. "You're writing style is good," he complimented, "but you've already forgotten a few memories of our first day together in London."
Undoubtedly, I knew that I would forget some details over time, but after my conversation with Craig, I was surprised by how many important stories had already left my conscious thoughts. Not wanting to forget them a second time, I jumped from my couch to grab a pen and scribble a few notes on the back of a recently-sent birthday card. Rather than inserting them into an already existing blog post and risk these stories being missed by anyone who regularly reads this blog, I've decided to write this follow-up post in hopes of fixing all of my chronological mistakes.
To clear up any confusion, here's a re-cap of Craig's first day in London:
1) I took a train from Guildford to London Gatwick Airport to meet Craig as he arrives from Cincinnati.
2) Craig barely makes it through U.K. passport control.
3) While questioning Craig's need for an extremely large suitcase, we ride the subway to our hostel and conveniently drop off our bags.
4) Craig freaks out as I almost lose him in the London subway.
5) We both have a great time at the Tower of London.
6) INSERT FORGOTTEN MEMORIES HERE.
7) We finally arrived back at our hostel for the night only to discover that my mattress is soaking wet.
I must have suffered from a case of temporary amnesia as the hours between the closing of the Tower of London and arriving at our hostel were hazily blotted from my mind. So what happened during Craig's first evening in London that is seemingly important for me to re-tell now? Several things, my dear readers. Let us back up to the Tower of London...
As mentioned previously, Craig and I had such a great time at the Tower of London that we didn't leave Tower Hill until the museum was closing its doors for the night (rather, only late afternoon around 4 or 5 o'clock). After eating a late lunch, neither of us had an appetite for dinner at this point though pub dinners were just beginning for the evening. Wanting to make the most of Craig's visit to London, I suggested that we experience yet another aspect of British culture -- Evensong with the Church of England.
Though Craig and I are both devout Roman Catholics, my religious practices had changed a bit since living in England. Firstly, I had to adjust to the fact that Catholicism is not the primary religion in England. Though I had expected this, I didn't realize how challenging it would be to find a convenient place for mass on Sunday mornings. While it wasn't much of a problem to go to mass in Guildford, it wasn't always possible for me to attend Catholic mass while Bill and I were traveling across England and other parts of Europe. To make up for missing masses, I would simply adopt the local Christian religion for a weekend and attend nearby services on the weekends. Since many of our weekend destinations were in southern England, Bill and I had attended several Evensong services as well as Sunday morning services with the Church of England. To put it all in perspective, I never really saw many differences between the Church of England and Catholicism. If you remember your history lessons, you may already know that the Church of England arose from the Roman Catholic Church and broke off as its own religion when King Henry VII wanted a divorce that the catholic bishops were unwilling to give. Though establishing itself as a distinct and separate religion, the Church of England kept many of the same Catholic traditions including celebration of the Eucharist, scripture readings, sacraments, and a mid-service homily. Needless to say, I am still hard-pressed to find more differences between the religions than similarities.
On one of our many trips to London, Bill and I had visited St. Paul's Cathedral -- cornerstone of the Church of England. Though much newer than Westminster Abbey, Bill and I were both awe-inspired by the beauty of the cathedral. For Evensong, the cathedral is lit only by candlelight, and music sung by the Choir of Men and Boys is absolutely heavenly. Similar to a Catholic mass, Evensong lasts about an hour and includes singing, Scripture readings, a homily given by the pastor, and Eucharist. To further immerse my boyfriend into British culture, Craig and I reluctantly hopped back onto the subway (read my earlier posts to find out why we weren't fans of the subway) and headed westward to St. Paul's Cathedral.
Mainly, I had two motivations for bringing Craig to Evensong at St. Paul's: (1) the choir and church are gorgeous by candlelight, and (2) Evensong and other services are the only times when you can get into the cathedral for free (yes, we are both cheap Americans). Craig's first response to seeing the cathedral, however, was far from the quiet reverence that I was expecting:
"That's the dome they blow up in 'V for Vendetta'!" he exclaimed as we turned a corner and saw the cathedral towering in the near distance.
Laughingly, I replied, "Not exactly my first impression of the place, but at least you can say that you saw something famous today."
Eventually finding the main entrance, we quietly entered the church as Evensong was just beginning. Keeping our voices to a whisper, I pointed out various aspects of the church as we walked across the back of the chapel. Edging towards the middle of the church, we stretched our necks to catch a glimpse of the mosaic-clad dome before earning annoyed glances from the church attendants. Feeling slightly disconcerted, Craig nudged me back towards the entrance and whispered, "I think we should head out now."
Walking back outside, I asked him, "So what did you think of St. Paul's?"
"The choir was incredible and the church was pretty, but I didn't want to crash their evening service."
"We could have stayed for Evensong," I replied.
"No," Craig answered. "I think I saw enough to get the gist of the place. Besides, that relaxing music would probably have put me to sleep."
"Hungry yet?" I asked, changing the subject.
"Not really."
"Excellent!" I replied. "Then we still have time to hit Harrod's before it closes for the night."
Despite visiting London several times before, I had yet to see inside the infamous Harrod's department store. On par with Macy's or Nordstrom's in New York, Harrod's is not only the largest store in London, but it also gains a fair amount of fame from its owner. The owner, Mohamed Al Fayed, was the father of the late Dodi Al Fayed -- Princess Diana's lover who died with her in a Paris car accident. Wanting to commemorate the death of his son and Princess Diana, Mr. Al Fayed erected a bronze statue of the couple and placed it in a side entrance of his department store. Besides the vast amount of shopping opportunity, this statue alone attracts many tourists to enter the store as they peruse through the streets of London.
Walking towards the store, I noticed a large crowd gathered outside Harrod's main entrance. Grabbing Craig's hand so not to lose each other, we gingerly stepped through the mob of passionate protesters trying to convince shoppers not to enter the store due to its refusal to boycott fur coats and accessories. Annoyed, I led Craig into the store and was instantly greeted by an attendant holding a pile of store maps. Taking a map, Craig and I coughed through the overwhelming perfume aisles and entered room after room sporting a variety of specialty items. Not wanting to add any extra weight to our already heavy luggage, we contented ourselves with only window shopping rather than spending money on somewhat pricey souvenirs.
"Do you know where we could find a loo?" Craig asked me, sporting his best British accent.
"Darling," I answered in my even worse British impression, "let us consult our Harrod's map."
Following our map to the nearest restroom, Craig gave me a quick kiss on the cheek and whispered, "Be back in a sec," as he ducked into the Men's Restroom. Thinking that this would be a great time for me to check out Harrod's bathrooms as well, I stepped in line at the Women's Restroom and patiently waited for a stall to become available. As we are all familiar with the differences between men's and women's public bathrooms, probably the biggest difference is the ever-growing line that winds throughout the women's restroom -- and for some reason, never occurs for the men. Eventually earning my turn to use a stall, I enjoyed the clean bathroom, washed my hands, and touched up my ponytail before leaving the restroom to look for Craig.
I immediately spotted Craig pacing outside the men's restroom with a distraught expression spread across his face. Nonchalantly walking over to him, I tapped him on the shoulder and said, "Nice restrooms. Ready to go now?"
Spinning around, Craig caught arm with a look of half-relief and half-scolding, "I couldn't find you again!"
If you can recall one of my more recent blog posts, you'd remember that Craig had developed a rather overwhelming fear of being stranded by himself in London on his first day in Europe. After nearly losing him on the London subway, I could understand how he could have legitimate concerns... but now??
"I just went to the restroom!" I exclaimed with an incredulous look on my face. "Didn't you see the line waiting outside the women's bathroom?"
"I thought you had wandered off again," Craig began, "and I'd have no way of finding you in this store."
"Craig," I started with an annoyed yet firm tone, "I am not going to lose you. You need to relax and just trust that I know what I am doing around here. Whether you believe it or not, I am always looking out for you around the city and know where you are standing at all times. All you need to do is relax and start enjoying yourself."
And that's when Craig finally started to relax...
Having seen enough of Harrod's, we left the store in search of a bite to eat. Walking on the sidewalk hand-in-hand, Craig abruptly stopped, almost causing me to trip over the sudden change in pace. "What's wrong?" I asked.
"Cars..." he salivated. "Porsche, Aston Martin, and Lamborghini!"
Rolling my eyes, I humored Craig for a few minutes while he walked up and down the street ogling high-priced cars that we'd never see dotting the streets of Cincinnati. Since I'm pretty content with the latest Ford models, I had to ask Craig this morning for the "complete list" of cars that we saw sitting outside Harrod's Department Store: Lamborghini Gallardo, Aston Martin DB9, Maserati GranTurismo, Mercedes-Benz SLK McLaren, Ferrari F430, Bentley Continental GT, Jaguar XK, and Porsche 911.
I must admit that I'm impressed that Craig can remember the models of these cars nearly 8 months after our week in Europe together. I guess some things just leave a lasting impression on guys. ;)
Eventually, rumbling stomachs interrupted Craig's appreciation for London cars, and we continued down the street eyeing nearby restaurants. Too tired and late to grab a plate of inexpensive pub grub, we quickly settled on an Italian sports bar and hungrily devoured two plates of pasta while watching recaps of the latest British soccer match.
Wiping our mouths and paying the bill, we set out on the long subway ride to the Globetrotter Hostel. And, well, you know the rest...
Now I can officially conclude the story of "Craig's First Day in London". See what you would've missed if I had simply left this post out?
Lucky for you, our trip gets even better! Stay tuned for Westminster Cathedral, the Churchill Museum, another trip to the British Museum, and the Paris catastrophe that made our week unexpectedly fantastic!
Undoubtedly, I knew that I would forget some details over time, but after my conversation with Craig, I was surprised by how many important stories had already left my conscious thoughts. Not wanting to forget them a second time, I jumped from my couch to grab a pen and scribble a few notes on the back of a recently-sent birthday card. Rather than inserting them into an already existing blog post and risk these stories being missed by anyone who regularly reads this blog, I've decided to write this follow-up post in hopes of fixing all of my chronological mistakes.
To clear up any confusion, here's a re-cap of Craig's first day in London:
1) I took a train from Guildford to London Gatwick Airport to meet Craig as he arrives from Cincinnati.
2) Craig barely makes it through U.K. passport control.
3) While questioning Craig's need for an extremely large suitcase, we ride the subway to our hostel and conveniently drop off our bags.
4) Craig freaks out as I almost lose him in the London subway.
5) We both have a great time at the Tower of London.
6) INSERT FORGOTTEN MEMORIES HERE.
7) We finally arrived back at our hostel for the night only to discover that my mattress is soaking wet.
I must have suffered from a case of temporary amnesia as the hours between the closing of the Tower of London and arriving at our hostel were hazily blotted from my mind. So what happened during Craig's first evening in London that is seemingly important for me to re-tell now? Several things, my dear readers. Let us back up to the Tower of London...
As mentioned previously, Craig and I had such a great time at the Tower of London that we didn't leave Tower Hill until the museum was closing its doors for the night (rather, only late afternoon around 4 or 5 o'clock). After eating a late lunch, neither of us had an appetite for dinner at this point though pub dinners were just beginning for the evening. Wanting to make the most of Craig's visit to London, I suggested that we experience yet another aspect of British culture -- Evensong with the Church of England.
Though Craig and I are both devout Roman Catholics, my religious practices had changed a bit since living in England. Firstly, I had to adjust to the fact that Catholicism is not the primary religion in England. Though I had expected this, I didn't realize how challenging it would be to find a convenient place for mass on Sunday mornings. While it wasn't much of a problem to go to mass in Guildford, it wasn't always possible for me to attend Catholic mass while Bill and I were traveling across England and other parts of Europe. To make up for missing masses, I would simply adopt the local Christian religion for a weekend and attend nearby services on the weekends. Since many of our weekend destinations were in southern England, Bill and I had attended several Evensong services as well as Sunday morning services with the Church of England. To put it all in perspective, I never really saw many differences between the Church of England and Catholicism. If you remember your history lessons, you may already know that the Church of England arose from the Roman Catholic Church and broke off as its own religion when King Henry VII wanted a divorce that the catholic bishops were unwilling to give. Though establishing itself as a distinct and separate religion, the Church of England kept many of the same Catholic traditions including celebration of the Eucharist, scripture readings, sacraments, and a mid-service homily. Needless to say, I am still hard-pressed to find more differences between the religions than similarities.
On one of our many trips to London, Bill and I had visited St. Paul's Cathedral -- cornerstone of the Church of England. Though much newer than Westminster Abbey, Bill and I were both awe-inspired by the beauty of the cathedral. For Evensong, the cathedral is lit only by candlelight, and music sung by the Choir of Men and Boys is absolutely heavenly. Similar to a Catholic mass, Evensong lasts about an hour and includes singing, Scripture readings, a homily given by the pastor, and Eucharist. To further immerse my boyfriend into British culture, Craig and I reluctantly hopped back onto the subway (read my earlier posts to find out why we weren't fans of the subway) and headed westward to St. Paul's Cathedral.
Mainly, I had two motivations for bringing Craig to Evensong at St. Paul's: (1) the choir and church are gorgeous by candlelight, and (2) Evensong and other services are the only times when you can get into the cathedral for free (yes, we are both cheap Americans). Craig's first response to seeing the cathedral, however, was far from the quiet reverence that I was expecting:
"That's the dome they blow up in 'V for Vendetta'!" he exclaimed as we turned a corner and saw the cathedral towering in the near distance.
Laughingly, I replied, "Not exactly my first impression of the place, but at least you can say that you saw something famous today."
Eventually finding the main entrance, we quietly entered the church as Evensong was just beginning. Keeping our voices to a whisper, I pointed out various aspects of the church as we walked across the back of the chapel. Edging towards the middle of the church, we stretched our necks to catch a glimpse of the mosaic-clad dome before earning annoyed glances from the church attendants. Feeling slightly disconcerted, Craig nudged me back towards the entrance and whispered, "I think we should head out now."
Walking back outside, I asked him, "So what did you think of St. Paul's?"
"The choir was incredible and the church was pretty, but I didn't want to crash their evening service."
"We could have stayed for Evensong," I replied.
"No," Craig answered. "I think I saw enough to get the gist of the place. Besides, that relaxing music would probably have put me to sleep."
"Hungry yet?" I asked, changing the subject.
"Not really."
"Excellent!" I replied. "Then we still have time to hit Harrod's before it closes for the night."
Despite visiting London several times before, I had yet to see inside the infamous Harrod's department store. On par with Macy's or Nordstrom's in New York, Harrod's is not only the largest store in London, but it also gains a fair amount of fame from its owner. The owner, Mohamed Al Fayed, was the father of the late Dodi Al Fayed -- Princess Diana's lover who died with her in a Paris car accident. Wanting to commemorate the death of his son and Princess Diana, Mr. Al Fayed erected a bronze statue of the couple and placed it in a side entrance of his department store. Besides the vast amount of shopping opportunity, this statue alone attracts many tourists to enter the store as they peruse through the streets of London.
Walking towards the store, I noticed a large crowd gathered outside Harrod's main entrance. Grabbing Craig's hand so not to lose each other, we gingerly stepped through the mob of passionate protesters trying to convince shoppers not to enter the store due to its refusal to boycott fur coats and accessories. Annoyed, I led Craig into the store and was instantly greeted by an attendant holding a pile of store maps. Taking a map, Craig and I coughed through the overwhelming perfume aisles and entered room after room sporting a variety of specialty items. Not wanting to add any extra weight to our already heavy luggage, we contented ourselves with only window shopping rather than spending money on somewhat pricey souvenirs.
"Do you know where we could find a loo?" Craig asked me, sporting his best British accent.
"Darling," I answered in my even worse British impression, "let us consult our Harrod's map."
Following our map to the nearest restroom, Craig gave me a quick kiss on the cheek and whispered, "Be back in a sec," as he ducked into the Men's Restroom. Thinking that this would be a great time for me to check out Harrod's bathrooms as well, I stepped in line at the Women's Restroom and patiently waited for a stall to become available. As we are all familiar with the differences between men's and women's public bathrooms, probably the biggest difference is the ever-growing line that winds throughout the women's restroom -- and for some reason, never occurs for the men. Eventually earning my turn to use a stall, I enjoyed the clean bathroom, washed my hands, and touched up my ponytail before leaving the restroom to look for Craig.
I immediately spotted Craig pacing outside the men's restroom with a distraught expression spread across his face. Nonchalantly walking over to him, I tapped him on the shoulder and said, "Nice restrooms. Ready to go now?"
Spinning around, Craig caught arm with a look of half-relief and half-scolding, "I couldn't find you again!"
If you can recall one of my more recent blog posts, you'd remember that Craig had developed a rather overwhelming fear of being stranded by himself in London on his first day in Europe. After nearly losing him on the London subway, I could understand how he could have legitimate concerns... but now??
"I just went to the restroom!" I exclaimed with an incredulous look on my face. "Didn't you see the line waiting outside the women's bathroom?"
"I thought you had wandered off again," Craig began, "and I'd have no way of finding you in this store."
"Craig," I started with an annoyed yet firm tone, "I am not going to lose you. You need to relax and just trust that I know what I am doing around here. Whether you believe it or not, I am always looking out for you around the city and know where you are standing at all times. All you need to do is relax and start enjoying yourself."
And that's when Craig finally started to relax...
Having seen enough of Harrod's, we left the store in search of a bite to eat. Walking on the sidewalk hand-in-hand, Craig abruptly stopped, almost causing me to trip over the sudden change in pace. "What's wrong?" I asked.
"Cars..." he salivated. "Porsche, Aston Martin, and Lamborghini!"
Rolling my eyes, I humored Craig for a few minutes while he walked up and down the street ogling high-priced cars that we'd never see dotting the streets of Cincinnati. Since I'm pretty content with the latest Ford models, I had to ask Craig this morning for the "complete list" of cars that we saw sitting outside Harrod's Department Store: Lamborghini Gallardo, Aston Martin DB9, Maserati GranTurismo, Mercedes-Benz SLK McLaren, Ferrari F430, Bentley Continental GT, Jaguar XK, and Porsche 911.
I must admit that I'm impressed that Craig can remember the models of these cars nearly 8 months after our week in Europe together. I guess some things just leave a lasting impression on guys. ;)
Eventually, rumbling stomachs interrupted Craig's appreciation for London cars, and we continued down the street eyeing nearby restaurants. Too tired and late to grab a plate of inexpensive pub grub, we quickly settled on an Italian sports bar and hungrily devoured two plates of pasta while watching recaps of the latest British soccer match.
Wiping our mouths and paying the bill, we set out on the long subway ride to the Globetrotter Hostel. And, well, you know the rest...
Now I can officially conclude the story of "Craig's First Day in London". See what you would've missed if I had simply left this post out?
Lucky for you, our trip gets even better! Stay tuned for Westminster Cathedral, the Churchill Museum, another trip to the British Museum, and the Paris catastrophe that made our week unexpectedly fantastic!
Thursday, July 10, 2008
Craig's First Day in London (Part 3)
A master of all things witty, Craig finally began to relax and enjoy himself at the Tower of London. Buying our tickets at a nearby kiosk, we ran to the entrance in hopes of catching the day’s last Beefeater tour. For those of you who have read my earlier blog posts, you can already imagine what was in store for us at the Tower of London. For those of you just starting to glance through my blog, here’s a brief synopsis:
The Tower of London, in short, is more like a fort than an actual tower. Strategically placed in the center of London, its original purpose was to serve as a military outpost for England’s capital city. The fort, however, is best known for holding Britain’s most famous prisoners during the Medieval era (e.g. the wives of King Henry VIII and several others). Many legends have grown around these prisoners – torture, beheadings, and ingenious escapes. Traditionally, the Beefeaters are the guards of the Tower of London. Since ceremonial guards are not really needed in present times to watch over a popular tourist attraction, the Beefeaters are primarily comprised of retired military men with a witty sense of humor. Each day, the Beefeaters lead entertaining and joke-filled tours of the towers. Weaving history with legend, our Beefeater tour guide left Craig and I reeling with laughter.
"Now I feel like I'm in London," Craig whispered to me as the Beefeater spared no mercy on American politics with a distinctly British accent.
Applauding the Beefeater as he finished his tour with the tales of King Henry VIII, Craig and I hurried away from the crowd toward the Jewel House, home to the crown jewels of England. "Oooo-ing" and "ahh-ing" at the over-sized jewels, Craig dashed my hopes of receiving royal sapphires by saying, "Yeah, definitely nothing here that I can afford!"
Moving from the Jewel House, I glanced at my watch and noticed that we had an hour left before closing -- just enough time to browse through the Medieval armament. Walking through room after room of spears and swords, I began to notice that a lack of sleep was beginning to catch up with Craig.
"Want to grab a bite to eat and head back to the hostel for an early night?" I suggested.
"I thought you'd never ask," he replied with a look of relief washing across his face.
After ordering dinner at a restaurant that has since left my memory, Craig and I hopped back onto the subway for the long trip back to our hostel.
If everything had gone as planned up to this point, then my story of Craig's first day in London would finally be over. However, the Globetrotter Hostel made our day just a little more adventurous than we were expecting.
When I booked our rooms at the Globetrotter Hostel a few weeks earlier, I was looking for two things: (1) decent reviews, and (2) cheap cost. Unfortunately, that evening's events quickly made me realize why this hostel was so affordable.
Though we had dropped our bags off at the hostel earlier that day, we had to store them in a locked basement closet until we could official check into our room that evening. This wasn't a problem since neither of us kept any valuable belongings in our bags. At the time, the hostel looked clean, quiet, and otherwise pretty normal. When we returned in the evening, we saw a completely different view...
It was well after dark by the time we walked back to the hostel from the nearest subway station. Unshowered and exhausted, neither of us had much patience to deal with the loud, raucous party that was just beginning in the hostel lobby. Sidestepping girls in Britney Spears naughty schoolgirl outfits, we cut through the crowd to the front desk and asked to check into our room. Clearly uninterested in our check-in request, the girl at the front desk twiddled her thumbs before eventually looking up our reservation in the computer.
"I'm sorry," she apathetically drawled, "but you only booked a bed for one person, and we're already filled to capacity tonight."
"No," I replied in a strained voice, "I booked two beds for two people several weeks ago, and two beds were definitely charged to my credit card."
"Let me find my manager."
Trying to keep my frustration under wraps, I turned to my almost-falling-over boyfriend and explained the situation. Twenty minutes later, the manager finally showed up at the front desk, searched for our reservation on the computer, and replied, "Oh yes, I do guess that you reserved beds for two people. Here are your room keys."
After claiming our luggage from the basement closet, Craig and I sleepily dragged our feet up the stairs to our third-story room. Dropping our bags on the floor of our hostel room, we were both relieved to see pillows and blankets folded neatly on the beds. "You go first," I told Craig while nodding towards the bathroom. "I'll wash up after you're done."
While Craig was changing into pajamas and brushing his teeth, I collapsed on my bed with a sigh and pulled back the sheets to tuck my feet under the covers. "Eeeewwww!" I screamed pulling my feet from the blankets and tumbling to the floor.
"What happened?" asked Craig as he shot from the bathroom with toothbrush in hand.
"The sheets are WET!"
Ripping back the blankets, Craig ran his hand across the mattress only to find that the previous traveler had left us a little "present" by pouring water all over the bed. (And yes, we made sure to sniff the mattress to confirm that it was water and not some other random fluid.)
After a long day with little sleep, I was in no mood for childish games. Storming down three flights of stairs to the front desk, I caught the nearest hostel employee and let my rude American demeanor loose. "My... mattress... is... wet. I... need... a... new... room."
"Wet?!" spoke the girl at the front desk. "Wow, that's disgusting. Let me call my manager, and we'll find you another room."
In the States, an incident like this would at least result in a free night or discounted rate, but in Europe, a replacement room is about the best that you can expect -- especially at a cheap hostel. Thanking the girl, I walked back up to our room and started repacking my bag for the move to a new bed.
Despite being "completely booked", the manager somehow managed to find new beds for Craig and I. Walking into our new room around midnight, Craig and I needed little prodding to fall onto our pillows and quickly fall asleep.
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
Craig's First Day in London (Part 2)
Like most days in
Strolling across
“Sure,” he replied, “but I’ve heard that British food isn’t much to brag about.”
“I’ve actually grown quite fond of it.”
Glancing across various restaurant signs and window menus, I eventually pulled Craig into a crowded pub that was incredibly busy for a Saturday afternoon. “Wait here,” I yelled over the noise, “and I’ll grab a few menus from the bar.”
After asking the barmaid for two menus, Craig and I claimed a tiny table near the front before ordering our food. “So what would you suggest?” Craig asked as he flipped through the menu.
“I’m a big fan of bangers and mash. Sausages, mashed potatoes, and gravy – nothing too adventurous.”
“Sounds great to me,” he said as closing his menu. “Do you want me to put in for two orders at the bar?”
Nodding, I handed over my menu and shifted my long legs around the extremely short bar stool. Walking back with two waters in hand, Craig handed me a glass before crouching down on his own bar stool. “This is great!” he smiled. “Cozy, comfortable, and a selection of beers that I’ve never seen before.”
“Do you want to try one?”
“I was tempted,” he answered, “but I would surely be drunk with only three hours of sleep last night.”
Understanding, I looked up to see the bartender carrying two heaping plates of bangers and mash towards our table. “Hope you’re hungry!” I grinned.
After an early morning of lugging baggage around
“Okay, where do we start?” Craig asked, refreshed from a hearty and comfortable mid-day meal.
“I think we should start with the
Somewhat of a history buff, the
Having grown accustomed to the fanatic push to get on the subway car before the doors slam shut, I had forgotten to tell Craig that the occasional elbow or slight shove might be necessary to squeeze yourself onto the train. As we moved to press ourselves into the crowded subway car, I slid in against the car wall and glanced back to see Craig standing in the doorway just as the automatic doors were quickly closing in on him.
“Julia!” he exclaimed while reaching for my arm. Grabbing his hand and pulling him in against the crowd, a frantic look passed across his face as the doors snapped shut behind him.
“I could have lost you!” Craig scolded as the shock of being separated quickly dampened our moods. “And then what would we have done?! I would have no way of finding you, calling you, contacting –”
“Craig,” I interrupted, “if we get separated on the subway, just stay where you are, and I will ride the subway back to get you. And if we lose each other, you can always call my cell from a pay phone, and we’ll find each other. Just relax – I won’t lose you.”
For the first time, the roles in our relationship had suddenly flipped, and the realization was a little bit shocking for both of us. During our first year of dating, I had come to rely on Craig not only for his solid advice and calm demeanor, but I also depended on the sense of safety and protection that I always felt when around him. While touring
Craig, on the other hand, was just beginning to deal with his first case of “traveler’s stress”. Characterized by an intense fear of becoming lost or screwing up travel plans, traveler’s stress hits almost every international visitor at some point. For Craig, the fear of losing me and not knowing where to go or what to do in a strange foreign city was enough to put him in a state of momentary panic. After realizing his fears, I suddenly realized that Craig completely and solely depended on me to keep him safe – a level of responsibility that I had never experienced before.
Taking his hand as we arrived at Tower Hill station, Craig and I were happy to leave the subway and finally see a few famous
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
Craig's First Day in London (Part 1)
While listening to Craig recount his argument with the U.K. customs official, I scanned my eyes across the baggage claim trying to spot his suitcase before it passed us by. “Which bag did you pack?” I asked after he had finished his story.
“A black one with wheels,” he smirked.
“Thanks for describing half of the bags in this airport,” I sarcastically drawled.
“No problem,” Craig laughed as he reached towards a pile of slowly passing suitcases. “Here it is – black with wheels.”
“Oh goodness… I thought you were going to pack a small suitcase.”
“I only have two suitcases, dear, and the other one was too small for clothes plus souvenirs.”
With a rather incredulous look on my face, I hoisted my single duffel bag onto my shoulder and replied, “Well, I guess it’ll be alright as long as you carry your own luggage. Just make sure to watch the escalators and subway doors.”
After weeks of traveling across southern England and other parts of Europe, Bill and I evolved into very efficient luggage packers – a skill, which at that moment, I wish that I had more emphatically conveyed to my boyfriend. A weekend in Germany, for example, would require a single backpack with a few changes of underwear, socks, two T-shirts, pajama pants, flip-flops, one pair of jeans, and travel-size cosmetics. Everything else could either be left at home or comfortably worn through airport metal detectors. Since I would be traveling for fifteen days this time, I swapped my backpack for a slightly larger duffel bag and packed enough clean underwear/socks to last through the trip, two pairs of jeans, a pair of shorts, an extra sweatshirt, seven T-shirts, pajama pants, flip-flops, travel-size cosmetics, and of course, my Enzymology notes.
With a few extra clothing items, my duffel bag was nearly bursting at the seams, but this didn’t bother me since I had already formulated a plan to get rid of my dirty laundry – leave it at the hostel. Though it may sound a little odd, I felt no loyalty towards any of my old clothing items that had become stained and torn throughout my travels across Europe. Therefore, I had no problem leaving an item or two behind as we left a particular city. I sincerely apologize to any hostel staff that needed to throw out my left-behind socks, underwear, and T-shirts, but how else was I to pack for fifteen days with only a carry-on duffel bag? From a traveler’s point-of-view, this plan was brilliant and worked out remarkably well – even if it does sound a little odd.
Craig, on the other hand, wasn’t too keen about re-wearing clothes for multiple days or leaving underwear behind at a random European hostel – hence, the gigantic black suitcase with wheels. Sitting on the ground at three feet tall, I eyed the luggage and reluctantly imagined pulling Craig’s luggage through busy London subway stations. With few other options, however, we could only grab our belongings and catch the next train into the city.
Knowing we would both be running on only a few hours of sleep, I had planned a relatively light first day in London. First on the agenda: Get rid of Craig’s suitcase. Though our hostel was located far on the outskirts of London, I knew that we wouldn’t be able to truly enjoy the city while toting around cumbersome luggage. So upon hopping off the train in the heart of London, we walked to the nearest subway station to catch the “Tube” to our hostel. Unfortunately, Craig’s initial excitement about being in England began to subside as we sat for 45 minutes on a subway car before reaching our first destination. Some things just can’t be helped, however, and we hopped back onto the subway for another 45-minute trip back into the city after leaving our bags at the hostel. “I’ve been here 3 hours already, and I’ve only seen the London subway system!” Craig frustrately mentioned.
Wanting to make up for the fact that I had booked hostel rooms outside the heart of London, I pulled Craig off the subway at Victoria station and led him to the ground level of the city. There, for the first time since he arrived three hours earlier, Craig gazed across the Thames for his first view of England’s capital city.
Monday, July 7, 2008
Don't Mess with U.K. Passport Control
Flying eight hours overnight from Cincinnati to London Gatwick, Craig was still rubbing sleep from his eyes as we waited by the baggage claim for his suitcase. “What took you so long to pass through U.K. customs?” I asked as we watched bags roll past on a conveyor belt.
Grinning sheepishly, Craig replied, “They almost didn’t let me into the country.”
“What?!” I exclaimed. “I’ve never had any problems getting through Passport Control in this airport!”
“True, but I didn’t think to bring our travel plans with me.”
For anyone who has traveled outside the U.S., you may be beginning to see why the British customs officers were giving Craig a scrutinous examination as he tried to enter the country. For those who are feeling a little bit “out of the loop”, let me explain a few quirks about British customs officers.
With the recent rise in terrorist activity, the United Kingdom has tightened its borders and has adopted a more rigorous screening policy for travelers to enter London from a foreign country. As a popular tourist destination, millions of international travelers pass through British passport checkpoints each year, thus making England vulnerable to terrorist activity. In an effort to better control who enters and leaves the country, long-term visitors (e.g. international students) are required to obtain U.K. visas, and short-term tourists must answer a string of questions concerning their destination, purpose of travel, and expected departure.
Since I had obtained a student visa before leaving the U.S., the U.K. customs officials would usually just flip through my passport, ask where I was studying, and stamp my visa while
waving me through the turnstile. For Craig, however, the process was not so simple:
Customs Official: “What are you doing in the U.K.?”
Craig: “Visiting my girlfriend who is studying here.”
Customs Official: “Where is she studying?”
Craig: “At the University of Surrey.”
Customs Official: “Where are you meeting her?”
Craig: “At the airport.”
Customs Official: “Where are you staying while in London?”
Craig: “At a hostel.”
Customs Official: “Which hostel?”
Craig: “Uh….”
Being the natural event planner in our relationship, I had spent weeks making hostel reservations, buying plane tickets, and planning travel schedules before Craig stepped on a plane in Cincinnati. Taking for granted that I would have our confirmation emails and schedule printed out upon his arrival, it never once occurred to him that he should pack a copy of his travel plans in case I wasn’t at the airport to greet him when he arrived in London.
Though this scenario was never a concern for the two of us, the U.K. customs official lectured Craig for another 15 minutes on a very valid point. When meeting someone in a foreign country, always bring a copy of your travel plans (hotel reservations, important phone numbers, etc.). If, for some unforeseen reason, I was unable to meet Craig at the airport, he would have no idea where to go or how to contact me upon arriving in London. Arriving in a foreign country for the first time can be overwhelming enough when you know where you are going… and I’m sure that it would be even more ridiculously stressful if you became completely lost after hopping off the plane.
Thursday, July 3, 2008
Living an Ocean Apart
When my boyfriend Craig and I started dating ten months before taking off on my European travels, I made it a point to mention that I would be studying for a semester abroad in England. Beginning my travel plans nearly an entire year before meeting Craig, I was determine to let no one talk me out of studying abroad. Thankfully, this was never a concern with Craig.
Since my return to the States, I’ve had several people ask me how studying abroad can affect a romantic relationship. Before answering their questions, I ask them one of my own, “How strong is your relationship now?”
I’ve known many couples that haven’t survived intercontinental long-distance relationships for a variety of reasons. One of the most common scenarios involves the simple case of not understanding the experiences of the other person. For example, let’s say that a couple who has been dating for a long period of time spends a lot time together while both are living in the U.S. Normally, this would be a relatively good scenario. However, how will this couple react when they are suddenly faced with spending no time together when one of them moves abroad for several months? In a healthy relationship, the person traveling abroad would embrace foreign culture and feel free to enjoy new experiences without the guilt of leaving their significant other behind. In turn, the person at home would enjoy listening to their boyfriend/girlfriend relate their travel stories and be happy to cultivate relationships with friends and family on which they would otherwise have little time to spend.
What happens many times, however, is that the person abroad may feel guilty about having so many fun and exciting experiences without their significant other, thus leading them to question their overall happiness in the relationship. On the other hand, the person at home may become jealous or not be able to relate to their significant other’s personal growth while studying abroad. Regardless of the underlying reason, living on separate continents can create enough individual change to allow two close people to quickly drift apart.
So how did Craig and I fare with an ocean between us? Incredibly well, I must admit. Though it may have been a little tough at times, we had many things going for us:
1) Great Communication: From the start of our relationship, Craig and I have always been very open about our feelings and day-to-day experiences. With modern technology, this aspect of our relationship never really changed despite being geographically separated. Skype and GoogleTalk are amazing tools that allowed us to talk through our computers without paying a cent for expensive international phone calls. During the week while I was taking classes in England, we always found time to talk every night.
2) Valuing Experiences Both at Home and Abroad: While international travel is incredibly exciting, it is important to value your significant other’s experiences at home as well. During our nightly chats, I would always ask Craig to tell me about his day, our friends, and the latest run-down of college football scores. In return, he would listen to me recount my latest trip, brush with quirky British humor, and new-found favorite food. By valuing life both at home and in Europe, we were able to better understand each other during our time apart.
3) Never Put the Other in a Threatening Position: This rule applies as much abroad as it does at home. If you wouldn’t cheat while back at home in the States, then don’t give yourself this liberty while you are in another country. While I had a great time going out with friends to the pubs and various parties, I never felt the urge to test Craig’s limits by leading on other men. Though there were times when guys made an advance or two, I usually just laughed it off and spun it into a funny story to later relate to Craig. Needless to say, we had a few great laughs over British strangers having a few too many drinks at the bar.
4) Consider a Short-Term Visit: Though this might not be financially possible for many people, Craig did get the chance to hop across the Big Lake and visit me in Europe for eight days. Timing his visit with a two-week break before final exams, we were able to spend some quality time together and do a little country-hopping of our own. Since I had already traveled pretty extensively before his arrival, I was able to pull off our travel plans without many glitches. Having not been to Europe in over five years, Craig was able to provide a fresh perspective on our travels by adding an adventurous desire to try all things new and local to the area. Our travels together gave me the chance to share with him what I had enjoyed throughout the semester as well as giving us a fun-filled experience that we continue to look back on today.
Though I can’t pretend to be an expert on intercontinental relationships, I hope this provides a little insight into what worked for Craig and I during my semester abroad. In retrospect, I truly think that my four months in Europe strengthened our relationship by allowing us to build an even stronger foundation of trust and communication. Regardless, an extended trip abroad will probably help you in the end – either by ending a relationship that was never very strong or by strengthening a great relationship that makes two people incredibly happy.
Now that I’ve given my tiny piece of informational insight, let me move on to our fun adventures in London, Paris, and Belgium…
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